Aloha!
This past week has been busy and full of blessings. I'm still hurting a tiny bit from the Ex and his actions but I have the support of my family, friends and a lot of people at church on my side. I'm growing in faith by the two Bible studies I'm attending and I MADE IT THROUGH THE SHOW! I'm also reading "The Shack" which I got as a gift and let me tell you it is blowing my mind!!!!
But there are times when I mess up....by swearing when I'm with friends...and this morning I was really going to try to get up and start to pray. I'm no way a morning person so I only did it half heartedly, and I felt bad....there were some parts to today that were amazing, though, and I thank Jesus for that.
I'm trying to honor my vow and I'm starting to see how hard that can be not even a month into it.
Oy. I need help.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
Day 16- A Hooray Day!
What a GREAT day! I started the day by waking up rested, and not coughing! (That's blessing #1) This ZPack medicine is really great. I listened to worship all the way in and really had some QT with the Lord. Then when I got to work I immediately got a message from one of my Brothers in Christ at church encouraging me and speaking to all of the thoughts I had on the drive in! (That's blessing like 5 by now right?) I get to go through my day, stressful though it was, with a measure of added patience and awareness of the Lord. My boss was not having a good day and I was able to process the stress more and not let it bother me, where normally I'd let it get me bent out of shape. I leave work late and get to Bible Study right in time to introduce myself, get a cup of coffee and start on an amazing 10 week journey with some fabulous women in my church. We're studying Beth Moore's "Living Beyond Yourself" and if the intro session was any indication the Lord is definitely with this group!!!!! I m so excited to see what the upcoming weeks bring me and how the Lord changes me for His glory.
Such a great day!!!
Such a great day!!!
Monday, March 1, 2010
Day 15
Today consisted of being sick, and resting. I went to work but that lasted all of 30 minutes because my fever was up around 101. I went to the Dr's and she prescribed me a Zpack and some cough medicine. I had to dip into my meager savings, which displeases me. All in all I've been praying for health. My pastor and my friends are all praying for me also...it makes me feel nice. Like I have a support system. The selfish part of me wants to have people on my side, specifically. But I go to New Hope, which is his childhood church....so people still love him regardless. I don't want people to hate him, and they do mostly fall on my side. Where is the resolution?!?!? I feel like this isn't over, and it really needs to be.
My thoughts are still hung up on Ex, and its really frustrating to me, if it isn't obvious. I need to fully focus on the Lord and not hung up on him. I have no contact with him, really, but I can't help but think about him...what he's doing, does he think of me. Mainly I feel like I'm owed an apology that may never come. My prayer has to become about breaking free of him, and thoughts surrounding him. It hasn't helped that having to rest has brought these thoughts to the surface- its so much easier when I'm busy. This is the last weekend for the musical so after Saturday I'll really only have to see him on Sundays. I pray for strength.
Thoughts about missions are still surfacing as well....I want to go on a missions trip but I don't have any money, and I just started new job. They would not let me go.
So many things are swirling around in my head and I need to start changing something! Anything! Where do I begin? How do I start? I'm on my walk- ok, but I guess I'm selfish in that I wanted the happy parts and not these stressful parts.
But this is what its about. The hard parts, and still remaining faithful to my Lord.
Jesus, you are sovereign, and I know you have the best plans for me. Help heal my physical hurts, and continue to protect my heart during this time of healing. Help me keep the blinders on and dive into Your Word, which it Truth. And help me be a light for you, every day, even where I am. Help me to bloom where I'm planted.
My thoughts are still hung up on Ex, and its really frustrating to me, if it isn't obvious. I need to fully focus on the Lord and not hung up on him. I have no contact with him, really, but I can't help but think about him...what he's doing, does he think of me. Mainly I feel like I'm owed an apology that may never come. My prayer has to become about breaking free of him, and thoughts surrounding him. It hasn't helped that having to rest has brought these thoughts to the surface- its so much easier when I'm busy. This is the last weekend for the musical so after Saturday I'll really only have to see him on Sundays. I pray for strength.
Thoughts about missions are still surfacing as well....I want to go on a missions trip but I don't have any money, and I just started new job. They would not let me go.
So many things are swirling around in my head and I need to start changing something! Anything! Where do I begin? How do I start? I'm on my walk- ok, but I guess I'm selfish in that I wanted the happy parts and not these stressful parts.
But this is what its about. The hard parts, and still remaining faithful to my Lord.
Jesus, you are sovereign, and I know you have the best plans for me. Help heal my physical hurts, and continue to protect my heart during this time of healing. Help me keep the blinders on and dive into Your Word, which it Truth. And help me be a light for you, every day, even where I am. Help me to bloom where I'm planted.
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Day......blegh. I'm sick.
When did my body decide to hate me? When did I run myself down so much? Oh yeah, I know. Between working a 40 hour week at work, teaching three days a week then doing weekends at the show has really taken a toll on me. I guess I've been trying to escape the breakup, making myself so busy so I can't/won't think about it. But now I have a temp of 102/103 and I feel awful....I'm not doing the show tonight, so that helps for rest, but that also means no church tomorrow. We shall see.
I had my friend Stephanie pray with me on the phone last night and she said, in her prayers, that I had my focus on other places than Jesus....how is it that people can read me so transparently? I feel like my prayers are hitting the ceiling, or are not being heard, unless others are praying with me? Like I need a conduit to my Savior. Silly, I know. But I'm trying to use faith to get through this and I feel like I'm struggling more than I need to be. I should be over it, or better at it, or something.
I had my friend Stephanie pray with me on the phone last night and she said, in her prayers, that I had my focus on other places than Jesus....how is it that people can read me so transparently? I feel like my prayers are hitting the ceiling, or are not being heard, unless others are praying with me? Like I need a conduit to my Savior. Silly, I know. But I'm trying to use faith to get through this and I feel like I'm struggling more than I need to be. I should be over it, or better at it, or something.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Day 9
So far, today has been great....except for the moments in between being busy when I think about Ex, his new girlfriend, and indulging in feelings of loneliness. I have a feeling this is going to be the greatest struggle- learning how to cope with these feelings, learning to be okay single. I continue to pray that Jesus protects my heart right now because its still very weak and vulnerable. I wish I were over Ex. I want to move on...to bigger and better things. What's better than my Creator-Redeemer? Really, nothing, and its silly for me to have these feelings. But, in human weakness, I do, and I'll have to pray for strength. Does anyone have any suggestions? I'm keeping busy, making new friends, hanging out at night....I really do have full days and so I'm not wallowing or anything....
Monday, February 22, 2010
Day 8
8! My lucky number! My favorite number!
Today was devoted to finishing the audio CD I'm currently listening to, "Crazy/Love" by Francis Chen. Such a radical perspective that every Christian should hear!!!!! We need to live our lives, fully believing that Christ could come back at ANY moment....and how do we want our last moments spent? Such a thought-provoking, convicting book. I hope that I have the guts to actually do what the Lord tells me when He tells me what I need to do.
I was also able to minister to my little sister, "Dayle". She's going through PSR for her church right now, and I truly think that Catholicism is not the right move for her- she's just honoring what her father wants for her....I was able to talk to her a little bit today about her beliefs, and I realized that she really, really wants answers. PSR classes aren't bringing her closer with the Lord...they are just teaching her doctrine. I feel convicted to share with her some of the devotionals I am reading, and to buy her her own devotional from the bookstore...I don't want to interfere with her father's wishes, but I really feel compelled to get "Dayle" on the path to having conversations with God. Her mother agrees with me. I'm truly thankful that I can be open about my faith with my friends- and at work too. It's nice when I walk into my boss' office and hear Chris Tomlin playing. It's wonderful that I get to include my Savior in my everyday speech- it's how it should be!!!
Tomorrow is my long day. I really want to make it a point to start the day in prayer- I wanted to this morning and I failed because I didn't allow enough time. In addition to my nightly prayer and devotional I want to start making QT for God during the day. I make it a point to bring my Bible with me everyday to work but I never end up pulling it out. Its something to be prepared, and I understand I need to work. But sharing Christ is more important. It's vital.
Today was devoted to finishing the audio CD I'm currently listening to, "Crazy/Love" by Francis Chen. Such a radical perspective that every Christian should hear!!!!! We need to live our lives, fully believing that Christ could come back at ANY moment....and how do we want our last moments spent? Such a thought-provoking, convicting book. I hope that I have the guts to actually do what the Lord tells me when He tells me what I need to do.
I was also able to minister to my little sister, "Dayle". She's going through PSR for her church right now, and I truly think that Catholicism is not the right move for her- she's just honoring what her father wants for her....I was able to talk to her a little bit today about her beliefs, and I realized that she really, really wants answers. PSR classes aren't bringing her closer with the Lord...they are just teaching her doctrine. I feel convicted to share with her some of the devotionals I am reading, and to buy her her own devotional from the bookstore...I don't want to interfere with her father's wishes, but I really feel compelled to get "Dayle" on the path to having conversations with God. Her mother agrees with me. I'm truly thankful that I can be open about my faith with my friends- and at work too. It's nice when I walk into my boss' office and hear Chris Tomlin playing. It's wonderful that I get to include my Savior in my everyday speech- it's how it should be!!!
Tomorrow is my long day. I really want to make it a point to start the day in prayer- I wanted to this morning and I failed because I didn't allow enough time. In addition to my nightly prayer and devotional I want to start making QT for God during the day. I make it a point to bring my Bible with me everyday to work but I never end up pulling it out. Its something to be prepared, and I understand I need to work. But sharing Christ is more important. It's vital.
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Day 7
I'm realizing more and more that the Enemy wants to use this time to plant all sorts of doubt, fear and feelings of loneliness inside my brain. He wants to use the current situation I'm in to tell me "You'll never have a relationship again, you're not enough to merit that right now" and I keep thinking "But this isn't about a relationship with a man, its about a relationship with God". And yet those tests and doubts persist. Watching your recent ex completely blissed out with another woman isn't the nicest thing day in and out. Especially on weekends when its my so-called "relaxation time".
This morning in church was a great example...I arrive early so I can be there first. I have to be there first- it affords me some measure of control over a situation that really, I have no control over. I find encouraging words from two ladies in the church and am able to sit beside one. "They" walk in, sit down, and immediately begin holding hands. A few weeks ago the mere sight of "Ex" was enough to bring me to tears. Then I had to deal with the two of them together, in church. Ok, alright, God got me through that. Then the have to add the holding hands in church. Really? REALLY?
Deep breath, I say. This isn't what my year is supposed to be about, I think....but it is. This year is about healing my heart and becoming closer to Jesus. Worship at church today affirmed that. I was able to let go of my perception of proximity between "Them" and me, and focus totally on God for about two songs....I'll take two songs right now. I'll take anything that gets me fully on God and not on my reactions to "Them".
I feel like failure for letting my thoughts dwell on "Them" and not on Him.
Can't I be rid of this yet? Can't I be done? I'm so there, so ready for it to all end, but there will be constant reminders of it for the next two weeks at the show, and now it seems at church.
People are affirming my character in how I'm handling this, how mature I am and how they see me rising above the situation. How I would LOVE to not even have to deal with this!!! But I'm reading/listening to Francis Chen's "Crazy Love" in which he gives powerful examples from Scripture that suffering and humbling myself before my enemies is a definition of the love Jesus wants us to show. Now, they aren't trying to kill me, and they are not enemies, but they certainly are not behaving how Christians should behave....and so, causes me hurt.
I keep recalling a song entitled "The Heart of Worship"- I'm coming back to the heart of worship, where its all about You, its all about You Jesus. I'm sorry Lord for the thing I've made it....
I am sorry. I feel awful...but this is all part of my test. To make sure that He is the center and focus of my life, No Matter What or Who is Anywhere. Even at church.
This morning in church was a great example...I arrive early so I can be there first. I have to be there first- it affords me some measure of control over a situation that really, I have no control over. I find encouraging words from two ladies in the church and am able to sit beside one. "They" walk in, sit down, and immediately begin holding hands. A few weeks ago the mere sight of "Ex" was enough to bring me to tears. Then I had to deal with the two of them together, in church. Ok, alright, God got me through that. Then the have to add the holding hands in church. Really? REALLY?
Deep breath, I say. This isn't what my year is supposed to be about, I think....but it is. This year is about healing my heart and becoming closer to Jesus. Worship at church today affirmed that. I was able to let go of my perception of proximity between "Them" and me, and focus totally on God for about two songs....I'll take two songs right now. I'll take anything that gets me fully on God and not on my reactions to "Them".
I feel like failure for letting my thoughts dwell on "Them" and not on Him.
Can't I be rid of this yet? Can't I be done? I'm so there, so ready for it to all end, but there will be constant reminders of it for the next two weeks at the show, and now it seems at church.
People are affirming my character in how I'm handling this, how mature I am and how they see me rising above the situation. How I would LOVE to not even have to deal with this!!! But I'm reading/listening to Francis Chen's "Crazy Love" in which he gives powerful examples from Scripture that suffering and humbling myself before my enemies is a definition of the love Jesus wants us to show. Now, they aren't trying to kill me, and they are not enemies, but they certainly are not behaving how Christians should behave....and so, causes me hurt.
I keep recalling a song entitled "The Heart of Worship"- I'm coming back to the heart of worship, where its all about You, its all about You Jesus. I'm sorry Lord for the thing I've made it....
I am sorry. I feel awful...but this is all part of my test. To make sure that He is the center and focus of my life, No Matter What or Who is Anywhere. Even at church.
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